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The Bishop's Daughter: A Memoir
The Bishop's Daughter: A Memoir
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Author: Honor Moore
Publisher: W. W. Norton
Category: Book

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Avg. Customer Rating: 4.0 out of 5 stars(13 reviews)
Sales Rank: 34625

Languages: English (Original Language), English (Unknown), English (Published)
Media: Hardcover
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 352
Shipping Weight (lbs): 1.5
Dimensions (in): 9.4 x 6.3 x 1.2

ISBN: 0393059847
Dewey Decimal Number: 283.092
EAN: 9780393059847
ASIN: 0393059847

Publication Date: May 19, 2008
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"An unsparing portrait of a glamorous but elusive father and his daughter's search for the truth about his secret life."?Sylvia Nasar

Paul Moore's vocation as an Episcopal priest took him?with his wife Jenny and a family that grew to nine children?from robber-baron wealth to work among the urban poor of postwar America, prominence as an activist bishop in Washington during the Johnson years, leadership in the civil rights and peace movements, and two decades as the bishop of New York. The Bishop's Daughter is a daughter's story of that complex, visionary man: a chronicle of her turbulent relationship with a father who struggled privately with his sexuality while she openly explored hers, and a searching account of the consequences of sexual secrets. With a depth of questioning that recalls James Carroll's An American Requiem, this memoir engages the reader in the great issues of American life: war, race, family, sexuality, and faith. 22 photographs.



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4 out of 5 stars The Bishop's Daughter   October 22, 2008
My husband was an Episcopal Priest. He admired Bishop Paul Moore. The book is a walk down memory lane; I knew a number of clergy mentioned in Honor's compassionate story.


5 out of 5 stars honest journey through family dishonesty   September 26, 2008
Honor Moore deeply engages her memories and the documents of her family. She uses photographs, letters, journals and newspaper reports to inform and challenge her original memories as well as plenty of psychotherapy to inform her insights. Her book reflects an adult making sense of her family and herself ... within the context of wealth, privilege and many well-known names.

Most compelling of all is the cost of her parents dishonesty about affairs, sexual orientation and affections. As another reviewer notes, this book is a carefully reflected upon object lesson for all people about the damage done by denials and lies.

At the same time, it chronicles the opening up of new opportunities ... such as Bishop Moore's ordaining the first out lesbian, and other changes in the Episcopal Church. The overall message is one of hope and faith and love (as in the best kind of charity.)

Read it!



5 out of 5 stars A Tale of Love   August 25, 2008
  1 out of 1 found this review helpful

I happen to have had the good fortune of meeting Ms. Moore in school, many years ago and we have remained in touch sporadically over the years. Can I be objective because of my relationship? Yes and no...I have other friends who have written books and I am predisposed to like them, that said, some I like better then others, reporting to you that I love Honor and I truly loved her latest book. Found it very moving and respectful, not a "Mommy Dearest", loose liped memoir at all. Wonderfully written, evocative, funny and sad and above all written with a full heart. One of my favorite reads in the last few years. Bless her and Mom and Pops too.


1 out of 5 stars Dirty Laundry   August 12, 2008
  0 out of 6 found this review helpful

I wish that the author of this book had enough income from her trust fund that she didn't have to write and publish a book like this. There is an incredible amount of private information in this book that should never have been made public. Honor Moore has dishonored her family.


5 out of 5 stars The Bishop's Closet   August 1, 2008
  2 out of 2 found this review helpful

Honor Moore could teach Freud himself a few things about family relationships. The first of nine children of a marriage between a privileged Episcopal priest and his well-born wife, Honor from an early age longed to get inside the dynamics of her parents' life together.

Coming as it does while the Anglican (Episcopal to Americans) church is in the midst of a controversy about the roles of gays and lesbians, her memoir is especially instructive about the way sex and gender play out in this ecclesiastical world. It is also a cautionary tale about the ripple effect of dishonesty nurtured in closeted homosexuality.

What makes this memoir so compelling, however, is not that Honor Moore outs her iconic father, Paul, the bishop, but her gentle but relentless search for the factual and emotional truth about her parents' multiple liaisons and her own. Meticulously, she recounts her childhood awe of her father's spiritual identity, separate from the one he assumed around the rectory. In his clerical garb, he was apart, but even more than she knew was hidden.

The years the family spent in Jersey City during the late fifties and early sixties in a ministry that involved all its members formed her character and created the image of her father as a dashing activist priest aware of the roots of racism and poverty. She speaks dispassionately of the huge family fortune that provided some respite for the family and enabled her father's ministry. He called it his cross of gold. She would say, I think, that the cross he and his family bore was of a different nature.

Aside from its political implications, this memoir is a deeply personal exploration of Christianity and the erotic and worth reading no matter what your sexual or religious orientation.



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